The penis and its biggest secret. How to create better orgasms for men with a little knowledge and something that has never been talked about before… The Pushback. Sex Secrets
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There is no toy called The Pushback and it is not a device you can buy on Amazon or your local sex shop. The Pushback is a word that can possibly help you understand the mechanics behind sex that hasn’t really been discussed before. And for free. And what’s really cool, just understanding The Pushback can possibly help you give you and your partners better orgasms. So let’s get into the important stuff shall we? Sex Secrets
The Pushback, Our Biggest Sex Secrets Revealed
Fellas, you can make your orgasms much better if you know what exactly is causing them. Let’s start with a simple example so we can all be on the same page. Ladies you can follow along too! Make a cylinder with your hand and gently put it around your thumb. Now move your thumb slowly in and out. You will feel a slight tickle sensation across your thumb’s surface area. You will also feel that you have a good sense of all the various textures and ridges in your hand. Now, do the same thing except squeeze your hand tighter around your thumb. As you move in and out, you will notice that you actually feel less detail of the hand because of the pressure surrounding the thumb as a whole. However, you can feel the resistance and it is obviously much tighter. Now ask yourself, why does a tight vagina or anus feel so much better than a loose one? First, your penis isn’t your thumb. It is much more sensitive and has very sensitive nerve endings at the tip of the head and frenulum area. The tight sensation around your penis also creates much more friction as it rubs through a woman’s walls. The idea of friction makes immediate sense, because if it’s tighter, it creates more friction and that just better around our penises right? So this is why tight pussy feels better?
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There is more. Go back to putting your hand around your thumb and squeezing. As you move in and out, I want you to pay attention to the knuckle at the base of your thumb. In fact, you can actually visually watch your knuckle respond to the motion as you move your thumb in and out of the hand. The tighter you squeeze, the more resistance, the more you will see that thumb knuckle move around the base of your thumb. That is what we call “The Pushback.” And that knuckle in comparison to your penis, is your prostate.
If you are following along, I feel like this is the moment the light bulb goes off in your head and you have just been awoken. It’s that simple. Something that has never been put into words or talked about, makes all the sense in the world when you finally hear it. Let me let you take your time to register that example for a second. The untold Sex Secrets.
Before we go further, let me explain various things that I enjoy, but never knew why.
When getting deepthroat or fucking a girls face, my penis hits the tighter hole in the back of a girls mouth, the tonsil area, and creates a slight resistance before it pushes through. If a girl tenses up and has a gag reflex, it won’t push through, but the pushback mechanism is still the same. This is the best feeling in the world. In fact, I will pull out just enough so that my penis head passes through that tight hole in the back of her throat each stroke. Although some of it has to do with the friction and texture, a lot of it has to do with the resistance. I instinctively always tried to find resistance so my prostate gets massaged during oral sex.
Maybe this is why some men have so much trouble orgasming through oral sex?
If you read various questions from men, a lot of times you will hear complaints about how they just can’t seem to orgasm through oral sex. Well, the pushback may be the explanation. If a woman keeps her mouth too loose, you won’t really get any pushback. Also, if she has too much of a gag reflex to ever really apply pressure with the back of her throat, again, the pushback mechanism will not be in place. Therefore, your prostate is kind of left in the air, with no real stimulation. This would make orgasming very hard. This is also why having a better understanding of the pushback mechanism will help you and your significant other create better orgasms. If you do have a gag reflex, use your hands while giving a blow job to help create The Pushback. A lot of times the answer to men not having orgasms is because a woman will not use her hands properly. Well, it’s not just because it looks sexy to see a girl using her hands, but the hands create the pushback your body needs, to get the orgasm sensation. You see, there is a method to the madness.
There was a time when Venice didn’t deepthroat, had a quick trigger gag reflex, and wouldn’t use her hands because she didn’t want to mimic porn stars As silly as that sounds, some women are hesitant (for whatever subconscious reason) of being sexy and refuse to do anything they consider “porn”. “You watch too much porn, I don’t suck dick like that.” Well, porn stars may be doing that to look sexy, but there is also a mechanism behind it, that for 1000s of years has worked on our penis when all else fails…. jacking off. Don’t neglect that because you are too proud to look extra sexy.
Why does it feel so much better when I am turned on and totally erect?
If your penis is extremely erect, to the point you feel like it can’t get much harder, this obviously makes your orgasms much better. The more erect your penis is, the more Pushback you will get from masturbation or sex. For me personally, the more erect I get, the less friction I feel, the less the tightness matters because I can slice through steel when my dick is rock hard. However, the erection goes down to the base of my dick and any movement I make, puts a lot of pressure on my prostate. Am I painting a clear picture yet? I feel like I am starting to beat a big horse here. Or is that a dead horse? Whatever, same thing.
If you notice, right before you orgasm, you will be at your absolute hardest you can possibly be. This is your body’s natural reaction to making sure your prostate gets the most pushback possible. The harder you are, the more stimulation the prostate receives.
The Prostate and The Pushback
If this type of article still has your attention, then you have probably read various articles/experiences on how amazing prostate orgasms feel. Some men like to share their experiences on how they can orgasm without even touching their penis, just from having their prostate massaged through their anus. They also claim that these are the most amazing orgasms they have ever had. Well, just know, each time you have sex or masturbate, you are also massaging your prostate though the pushback mechanism. The tighter you squeeze, the more pushback you get. Bottoming out in a vagina? Pushback. The harder you pound, the harder the pushback. This idea may make you realize that massaging your prostate may be overrated, or maybe help you with achieving orgasms through other mechanisms because rubbing your prostate from your anus isn’t really any different than rubbing it with your erect penis. You aren’t going to break your prostate massaging it from your anus. You aren’t really doing something totally out of this world that your body doesn’t already feel. You’re just massaging the same little button, but adding the feeling of having a finger shoved up your anus, which in itself has various other sensations you do not get through typical sex. I personally do not enjoy the various sensations that go along with having my anus penetrated.
How did we discover the pushback mechanism?
This is an interesting question. I was always curious how large 9 / 10 inch dicks fit inside a smaller woman. So Venice and I started exploring. From my experience, I can take my index finger and simply move it around Venice and feel her cervix, her back walls, and even explore the small cave area (posterior fornix). Judging by the other women we have been with, I would say Venice is a bit more shallow than average. You don’t really hear much about a woman being shallow, just if she is tight or not. Once you realize how the pushback works, maybe you will be able to appreciate other things about a woman you have never heard talked about in locker rooms before. Much like a penis size, the depth of the woman probably varies from girl to girl. I concluded, judging by the depth of her vagina, she would have had an extremely small penis! She disagrees by the way.
With that said, it still left questions. How can her vagina be so shallow, but I still push all of my dick inside of her. I mean, I have slammed myself inside her as hard as I can, balls deep, and I am much longer than 4 inches.
This was my introduction to The Pushback. The bottoming out sensation inside a woman is what I instinctively search for during sex. Although I didn’t know it, it’s the natural reaction of trying to get as deep as I can, almost crawling myself so far up inside her that I need scuba gear. My young mind thought it was more of a motherly thing. Wanting to be deep in a woman, like we were being totally comfortable, at home, and being born again. That idea was horrible and I have since ruled that out. I don’t want to be inside my mother…like at all. And then I thought it was because I want to be so deep she feels all of me. That’s a real common manly thought. That idea is also now out the window. For me, I naturally try to find the bottom so I can get The Pushback sensation. The same as I will naturally let me head slide back and forth through the entrance of her vagina (this also creates a slight pushback), or the entrance of the tighter hole in the back of her throat. It was bottoming out that made me realize how much I enjoy hitting the back of her vagina, to where even her walls stop stretching. This creates the resistance my prostate needs. At that bottoming out point, we both feel this intense pressure. Inside her, she feels a deep pain, as if she is being stuffed. It can make her nauseas and/or it can make her orgasm. Weird huh? And on me, when I hit that area where just no more penis can fit, I feel this pushback pressure inside of me, in essence, massaging my prostate. This makes my orgasms better in every way.
Now, from the outside looking in, you may see a large dick just disappear inside a woman as they both moan and fuck. Especially in porn. I am sure you have watched porn and sat there wondering how a girl can take so much dick. Well, technically she is not. It’s a magic trick. Yes, she takes as much dick as her body allows, but I’d say 1/3rd of that shaft is going back into the man’s body and massaging his own prostate.
For those of you that may not be able to achieve the bottoming out in a woman, as we are all different sizes. You can still get the same sensation by using the entrance of her vagina to create that pushback pressure. Just pull out as you penetrate and use her natural tightness at the beginning of her vaginal canal. This will create a slight variation of The Pushback. Or you could just try anal.
We’ll leave that one alone for now… sex Secrets
On another related note, there have been a lot of women that say men with smaller dicks fuck much better, last longer, and learn to use their tool perfectly to make up for the lack of size. There may be an actual physical reason for that phenomenon. Yes, a lot of it has to do with a smaller man more willing to learn to please a woman better without depending on the size of his penis. But he is at a HUGE advantage. He can penetrate for hours not having to deal with any pushback. He can massage a woman’s walls, no bottoming out, no pushback, no massaging of his own prostate, which would help him last much longer. Women that aren’t as tight, naturally we will last longer. At least that has been my experience. So, for men that pride themselves in going for hours, having no pushback is a blessing!
So all this jibber jabber should make one thing clear. There is nothing special about prostate orgasms that normal orgasms don’t experience. I know that will piss off a lot of guys with smelly fingers, but it’s the truth. And yes, I’ve had both. There are various types of ways to put pressure on your prostate. A finger. Another man’s penis. A toy. And the original method, your own dick. Don’t get me wrong, every variation is beautiful and has it’s own perks, but it’s easy to mislead guys into thinking that having an everyday orgasm, can’t be as intense as a prostate orgasm. That just isn’t true. So we will destroy a myth, but at the same time, help couples and men achieve better orgasms because they can properly understand the mechanics behind it. Since I haven’t read anything on The Pushback and sometimes we just make up shit to blog about, I may write future articles regarding this topic.
We went into so many various ideas based off The Pushback, that we will probably revisit each idea separately in future blogs. Sex Secrets