Give your man a female’s orgasm.
I don’t want to really label orgasms, but ladies, most of us know that we can put a vibrator up to our clitoris and it doesn’t take long for the magic to happen. When we were young it started with us exploring our naughty region with a finger and slowly circling our clits. If that went well, we felt a natural tingle sensation deep inside our bodies, we started breathing a bit harder, our skin got flush, and out of no where we would tense up and convulse. From the beginning of our sexual exploration, our orgasms centered around our clits. Fellas, eventually we taught you to make your tongues center around our clits as well.
Men, slow down, take off your pants, let us grab our vibrators, and allow us to give you the same orgasms we have grown to love.
Ladies, learn your man’s frenulum. This is a popular spot for a man to have a piercing, because there are so many nerve endings in this area. Ryan had his frenulum pierced and said it made sex and stroking his penis much more pleasurable. However, we had to remove it because deepthroating, anal, and sex in general didn’t feel safe to me. Especially in my throat.
Anyway, imagine your clitoris for a second. If you are bisexual and have explored another woman, then this shouldn’t be a problem. If you have not been with another woman, grab a mirror and explore yourself! If that’s a little too bold (you are reading a sex blog, just go grab a dang mirror girl!), search google images for close ups of a woman’s clitoris. Our clitoris resembles a small penis glans, with the same helmet shape, except tiny. Well, for me, when a tongue flicks right underneath the clit and not directly on it, this is where I get the most pleasure. The frenulum on a man’s penis is equivalent to that spot.
This is the spot you will rub against the vibrator. He may never achieve an orgasm with this method, because although it feels good, his instincts will be to move the vibrator out of the way and start stroking himself. This is the way his brain is wired to orgasm. New methods may frustrate him at first because he is conditioned to orgasm from specific stimuli. Sometimes frustration can be sexy, especially when you want to tease him. If you are a playful couple, I’d suggest tying his hands up. This will insure that no matter what he feels, he is forced to focus on what you are giving him rather than using a cheat code and grabbing his own penis to finish himself. I’ve learned that dirty talk should be kept almost ASMR, to relax and help him focus on what he is feeling. I can relate, because when I was first learning to orgasm, Ryan had to stay still and make subtle movements. It wasn’t until later I was able to have orgasms where his powerful movements actually helped me reach my climax